Episode 87: The impact of obsessing over client results
Today I’m sharing the story of the journey I’ve taken with my course Real You Real Money... I’ll tell you now, this is a vulnerable one!
Real You Real Money has gone through an evolution with every round. As I reflect back, I can see how different sides of my own conditioning around money, selling, and worth cropped up as roadblocks along the way.
A big part of this was around client results, and an unrealistic sense that I should be able to guarantee a specific experience and transformation within my courses. This led to a whole lot of self-doubt, trying to outsource my magic, and standing in the way of sharing the true impact of the course.
The truth is that everyone who interacts with your services will have a different experience based on where they’re at in their own life and what happens outside of your time together. Whether you’re a coach, service provider, or even a product-based business, this one is for you if you’ve ever found yourself stuck in circles of trying to control the uncontrollable.
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QUOTES
“Part of kindness at all costs is taking responsibility for so much more than it is possible for us to take responsibility for. As if I can create a program that somehow eradicates every single extra element that could come into someone's world while they're doing it - that's ridiculous.”
“If you have a good six months working with me, I will celebrate that. I will always be working with you to make sure in any way we can, that that's sustainable. That you are really drawing out of yourselves who you are, what works for you. I cannot make that happen, but I can ask the questions. Be that mirror for you.”
“If I focus on the idea that everybody HAS to get results, I am not making space for my clients as individuals with individual experiences and individual needs. I am putting myself at the forefront of that course creation.”